Dark Side of the Island

[Dark Chocolate]

Sex is great. Question is - Can there be too much of a great thing?

How much is too much?

and

When does too little become an issue?

These are burning questions!!!!!

[Mortricia]

From my own experience (or lack thereof), no sex is definitely way too little!!! Some days I feel turned on and frustrated all day long from wanting to have sex so bad. Thank god for masturbation!!

I'd like to know how much sex most couples have, how much they consider to be too much, or too little. If it's too much, do they feel that way because they don't have the time for sex, don't have the desire for it, don't have the physical energy for it, or just don't want it with the same person that frequently? I would think if you truly loved someone, you could never get enough intimate moments with them.

[Dark Chocolate]

It's a real question. And one reason I posed it was that I have been on both sides of the issue.

There was time when too much was just too much. When it became work and not fun (when it's the 10th or 11th night in a row...you are just worn SLAP OUT sometimes!).

And there have been times when it is weeks or a couple of months...and you just want it bad.

There's an old saying that if you put a coin in a jar for everytime you have sex with someone in the first couple years of a relationship/marriage and then take one out each time after, that you will never empty the jar.

This has an element of truth in it. And I wonder if it is one of the reasons people cheat in relationships...because they are trying to recapture that "I need you all the time" feeling they have when a relationship is still new.
Maybe not....But maybe.